Human sexuality can be both pleasure and challenge – common problems affecting it are diverse, running the gamut from arousal disorders and anorgasmia to vaginismus and bedroom zestlessness.
It’s all well and good to enjoy sexual encounters in London, but sometimes you may want to discuss your love life with a professional. With that in mind, we have researched a wide range of London-based sex and couple therapists and counsellors with an eclectic range of skills and specialisms when compiling our list.
Rest assured, each of the sex and relationship counsellors you’ll find among our octet of orgasm experts and relationship gurus boasts professional qualifications and many years of experience while incorporating the latest treatments.
What are the Main Sex Therapy Treatments?
Psychosexual therapy:
A specialised type of treatment combining elements of the traditional ‘talking therapy’ (psychotherapy) with sex education and relationship counselling, it has been proven to promote better sexual health and greater intimacy.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT):
A useful tool when it comes to changing unhealthy, self-defeating and destructive behaviours and thought patterns. Helps address irrational beliefs and promotes healthier thinking patterns.
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP):
Used to ‘reprogramme’ the brain by using visualisation, mental strategies, and language patterns to mould perspectives and emotional states.
Integral Eye Movement Therapy (IEMT):
A novel kind of therapy that is a mix of the ‘talking cure’ and guided eye movements, in which the patient is encouraged to focus on troubling memories to help the brain reprocess and reduce emotional intensity.
Disclaimer: All featured sex and couple therapists are ranked according to our LBN Trust Score rating***.
1. Dr. Wafaa Eltantawy (LBN Trust Score: 9.5)
Dr Eltantaway specialises in sexual and reproductive healthcare, relationship counselling, and psychosexual therapy, offering services in both English and Arabic.
She is also one of London’s leading sex and porn addiction professionals.
So, if you’re struggling with internet porn or have a compulsion to read explicit magazines, Dr Wafaa can help wean you off them.
Her approach to sexual health combines medical assessments with proven evidence-based therapeutic techniques to address your issues and develop a comprehensive care programme.
Fee
From £200 (individuals) | £220 (couples).
Areas of Expertise
Vaginismus (penetration problems) | Dyspareunia (painful intercourse) | Relationship issues | Erection difficulties | Problems with orgasm and ejaculation | Low libido and loss of sexual desire | Sex anxiety and trauma | Sexual abuse, trauma, and domestic violence | Sex and porn addiction.
Contact Info
- Address: 10 Harley Street, London W1G 9PF.
- Phone: 07931 557972
- Website: http://drwafaa.com.
2. Dr. Ben Davis (LBN Trust Score: 9)
Dr Davis specialises in sexual medicine and is a clinical sexologist and certified sex and relationship therapist.
His approach integrates medical, psychological, and relational methods to address issues such as low libido, erectile dysfunction, testosterone deficiency, and issues around intimacy.
He has the full gamut of sex and relationship issues covered, and is London’s go-to doctor for gay, bisexual and queer men with sex and well-being issues they would like to address.
Fee
From 60-minute initial assessment (60 min): £400 | 30-minute initial assessment: £220 | 50-minute psychosexual and relationship therapy: £235.
Areas of Expertise
Low libido | Erectile dysfunction | Premature ejaculation | Painful sex | Orgasm difficulties | Testosterone deficiency | Relationship issues | LGBTQ+ health.
Contact Information
- Address: Central Health London, 23 Devonshire Place, London W1G 6JB
- Phone: 020 7935 1333
- Website: http://drben.uk.
3. Dr Remziye Kunelaki (LBN Trust Score: 9)
Dr. Remziye Kunelaki is a highly experienced psycho-sexologist and psychosexual, with over two decades of expertise in sexual and relationship therapy.
Her approach uses a bio-psycho-socio-spiritual framework coupled with a goal-oriented therapeutic approach.
She offers both time-limited and open-ended therapy options, tailoring treatment plans to individual or couple needs.
She covers the gamut of sexual and relationship issues, but her specialism is in ‘sober sex’, assisting clients who have previously relied on drugs and stimulants when engaging in sex to achieve a more fulfilling sexual experience post-chemsex.
Her expertise also extends to addressing the complexities of sexuality within religious and cultural contexts, making her adept at working with diverse populations.
Fee
Not publicly available.
Areas of Expertise
Erectile dysfunction | Premature and delayed ejaculation | Libido problems | Painful sex | Difficulty with orgasm | Sexuality issues | Sex education | Relationship issues.
Contact Information
- Address: London Men’s Clinic, 25 Harley Street, Marylebone, London W1G 9QW.
- Phone: 07731 723859.
- Website: https://www.psychosexualtherapist.co.uk/.
4. Debbie Lovell Therapy (LBN Trust Score: 8.5)
Probably the most cosmopolitan sex expert on our list, Dr Lovell has trained in the UK, USA, Australia, and Hong Kong.
Her international experience has afforded her a pluralistic approach to therapy, integrating a variety of understandings, modalities, and methods, and viewing clients’ issues through multiple lenses.
Dr Lovell has also conducted extensive research into men’s experiences in relationships where female partners suffer from sexual pain.
She leans naturally towards working with issues at the intersection of psychology and biology, with a focus on sexual difficulties and incidental issues such as self-esteem and interpersonal stress.
Fee
From £180–£230 per session (self-funded); medical insurance policies accepted: Cigna, WPA, and GeoBlue, etc.
Areas of Expertise
Desire disparity| Pain during sex (dyspareunia) | Low libido and sexual arousal | Orgasm concerns | Delayed ejaculation | Erectile dysfunction | Performance anxiety | Sexual self-esteem issues | Sexual trauma.
Contact Information
- Address: 10 Harley St, London, W1G 9PF.
- Phone: 020 7467 8427.
- Website: https://drdebbielovell.com.
5. Leone Centre (LBN Trust Score: 8)
This sex and relationships centre offers both in-person and online services.
The centre’s 23-strong team of sex and relationship experts provide support for individuals, couples, families, and organisations.
The centre, whose motto is ‘Relationship is Everything’, specialises in relationship and marriage counselling.
Its team has extensive expertise in couples, marriage, family, and psychosexual therapy and can help you mend broken relationships and negotiate tricky marital issues.
Fee
Counselling costs start from £110 per 50-minute session | Couples Counselling costs start from £125 per 50-minute session | Family Counselling costs start from £140.
Areas of Expertise
Couples and marriage counselling | Family therapy | Psychosexual therapy | LGBTQI+ counselling | Neurodiversity therapy | Organisational consultancy | Leadership coaching.
Contact Information
- Address: Studio 19, Hurlingham Studios, Ranelagh Gardens, London SW6 3PA.
- Phone: 020 7384 7016.
- Website: http://leonecentre.co.uk.
6. London Psychosexual Therapy (LBN Trust Score: 8)
This clinic is run by Helen Bright-Gerrie, a qualified psychosexual therapist based in Harley Street.
LPT specialises in psychosexual therapy, a talking therapy that addresses issues like erectile dysfunction, low libido, painful sex, porn addiction, and issues with intimacy and sexual trauma.
A variety of treatments are on offer, including neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), cognitive-behaviour therapy (CBT) and integral eye movement therapy (IEMT).
The clinic has a strong focus on both psychological and physical aspects of sexual health, including trauma, addiction, and pelvic floor problems, which sets them apart from general therapy or medical treatment alone.
Fee
A free 15-minute no-obligation confidential call to discuss options and see how therapy can help | For session prices, enquire.
Areas of Expertise
Erection issues | Premature ejaculation | Delayed ejaculation | Low libido and sexual drive problems | Vaginismus | Orgasm issues | Sexual trauma | Sex and porn addiction | General relationship issues | Pelvic floor issues.
Contact Information
- Address: 10 Harley Street, London W1G 9PF.
- Phone: 020 7935 3100.
- Website: http://londonpsychosexualtherapy.co.uk.
7. Sexual Solution (LBN Trust Score: 7)
Run by Linda Connors, a sex hypnotherapist and confidence coach, Sexual Solution is aimed at men suffering from premature ejaculation problems and erectile dysfunction issues.
Using a mix of hypnotherapy, coaching, and somatic practices, Ms Connors helps men come to terms with ejaculatory issues, erectile dysfunction and sexual anxiety.
Her treatment aims to rewire the brains of her clients using a mix of hypnotherapy, affirmation therapy and emotional healing.
She has over 17 years of experience in the field and offers both in-person sessions in London and online consultations.
Fee
A free 30-minute initial consultation is available. For full session prices, enquire.
Areas of Expertise
Premature ejaculation | Erectile dysfunction | Delayed ejaculation | Sexual anxiety | Performance anxiety.
Contact Information
- Address: 1–7 Harley Street, London W1G 9QD.
- Phone: 020 7479 5690.
- Website: http://sexualsolution.co.uk.
8. Intimacy Matters (LBN Trust Score: 6.5)
This clinic is run by Colin Richards, a hands-on sex therapist and relationship expert who has qualifications in sexology and sensual massage.
Richards specialises in providing sensual massage treatments aimed at improving sexual confidence, pleasure, and intimacy.
He also offers psychosensual therapy, which is a mix of the talking cure, sex therapy and massage to help overcome sexual performance issues.
Intimacy Matters is also the place to be if you want to explore your sexuality, improve intimate relationships, and discover new ways to experience pleasure with your partner(s).
Fee
90-minute sensual massage and psychosensual therapy starts at £190 | 3-hour psychosensual treatment from £350 | Other tiered packages available | A 10% off treatment for women and couples if you join Sensual Connect, an exclusive community and networking platform.
Areas of Expertise
Orgasm issues | Erectile challenges | Premature ejaculation | Guilt and shame around sex.
Contact Information
- Address: 2 Sedding Studios, Sedding Street, London SW1X 9DE.
- Phone: 020 7730 7081.
- Website: http://intimacymatters.co.uk.
Sex Changes
London’s sexual wellness scene is diversifying, becoming more attuned to the rich tapestry of modern life’s increasingly fissiparous sexual identities and the proliferation of unorthodox relationship types.
This means that relationship counselling is moving decidedly away from traditional, mononormative approaches to better support clients who are in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships, as well as those taking steps to transition from one gender or sexual identity to another.
At the same time, as our list is testament to, relationship counsellors and sex experts are increasingly adopting integrative therapeutic models, which combine different approaches like CBT, mindfulness-based sex therapy, and psychodynamic theory.
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***Trust Score Breakdown (weighted by qualifications and years of experience)
| Rank | Expert | Average Trust Score (0–10) | Notes (Trust Score Rationale) |
| 1 | Dr. Wafaa Eltantawy | 9.5 | Qualifications: Medical degree, psychosexual therapy certifications, COSRT-accredited. Experience: 25+ years in sexual health, relationship counselling, and addiction treatment. High scores in both factors give a top trust rating. |
| 2 | Dr. Ben Davis | 9 | Qualifications: Medical degree, clinical sexologist, certified sex & relationship therapist. Experience: 20+ years, specialised in sexual medicine and LGBTQ+ health. Strong medical and psychosexual expertise. |
| 3 | Dr. Remziye Kunelaki | 9 | Qualifications: Psycho-sexologist, psychosexual therapist, COSRT-accredited, bio-psycho-socio-spiritual framework. Experience: 20+ years, focus on sober sex and culturally sensitive sexual health. High combined expertise and experience. |
| 4 | Dr. Debbie Lovell | 8.5 | Qualifications: Doctorate in counselling psychology, international training in sex therapy. Experience: 17+ years. A pluralistic therapeutic approach integrates multiple modalities. High qualifications, slightly fewer years than top three. |
| 5 | Leone Centre | 8 | Qualifications: A Team of 23 experts with diplomas in psychosexual therapy, counselling, and marriage therapy. Experience: Collective experience is extensive, though individual therapist experience varies. Strong multidisciplinary credibility. |
| 6 | Helen Bright-Gerrie (London Psychosexual Therapy) | 8 | Qualifications: NLP, CBT, IEMT, psychosexual therapy practitioner. Experience: 12+ years. Focus on clinical and psychological aspects of sexual health. Moderate experience but solid specialised training. |
| 7 | Linda Connors (Sexual Solution) | 7 | Qualifications: Certified sexologist, hypnotherapist, and confidence coach. Experience: 17+ years. Specialises in male sexual performance issues; lacks a medical degree but strong specialised skill set. |
| 8 | Colin Richards (Intimacy Matters) | 6.5 | Qualifications: Sexologist, sensual massage and psychosensual therapy. Experience: Hands-on therapy experience. Lower formal medical/psychosexual qualifications, trust score reflects more niche expertise. |
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